hi, same for me. I had no idea that H was unhappy and had someone else. I had felt distant from H and asked for us to go to counselling a few months before; H said we did not need it. Work got busy ( I know stupid)for me and then a few months later when i went to go to counselling on my own, he has someone else. H would like to be friends. How on earth do I do that? I have had to ask H not to talk to OW in front of me, H thought it would be ok?? So far, I am GALing.. and it is coming slowly. but everytime I turn around I am confronted with a reminder of her..he left a note out with a log on name, his, and the password is her name. She bought him a birthday gift and it is in his office. She calls every morning..they email ..they text... How do you ignore that stuff?
