need advice.....went dark on my wife for a week. Told her it was over. For months my wife has wanted nothing to do with me.....after telling her yesterday it was truly over and to not come back, she texts me last night and invites me over to hang out. Says she doesn't know if she wants to get back together. Says she screwed up big time and realized it's pretty rare for someone to change completely because they love someone so much (me).

I went over and put our son to bed and just watched tv.

Why is it that after I gave up, she might want me back ? What to do ?


M 31 W 26
M 6
S 6 S 3
Separated 6/2008
Back together 10/2008
All you need is love