Not sure I have much to offer right now. Our drama certainly seems to be never ending. I will say that I can understand your feelings of wanting nothing left unsaid. I struggle with that, even when W is ripping up one side of me and down the other (although it is much easier to shut-up at that point).
All we can do, I think, is take it one day at a time. As kat said to me, slow and steady... and then who knows what might happen.
You two are talking - did you ever revisit Retro?
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