I remember reading your posts. Just because your H has had an accident doesn't mean you have to take him back.The accident might bring you closer and mean that you can communicate again which would be great...but he walked out and put you through so much....having an accident doesn't make it all ok again. You can be kind and compassionate to him, (after all he IS the father of your children), without having to recommit to him.
I would imagine your H doesn't really know what he wants at the moment and he is just grateful to be alive. I don't think this means he necessarily wants to put the M back together either.
I would take each day at a time and let what other people say about taking him back just wash over you. That decision is one between your H and you and no-one else.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
