Originally Posted By: InLikeFlynn


I posted my story on another board but didn't really use the boards for help other than help in affair proofing my marriage from further affairs. Thats why I was always reluctant to offer much help other than my opinion. Don't want to be a hypocrite.

Two stories have caught my attention of this site....hope4us who was also on the other site and hopeful4her. No offense to other stories.



And you have given PEARLS of wisdom. I appreciate your attention to my situation. I really mean it. You don't post very often, but when you do, they help greatly.

It feels like you understand me. Not saying that no one else does. Just differently, you know? Like you, I tend to not give a whole lot of advice. I'll lend support, sometimes give an honest opinion, when appropriate, but mostly provide some comic relief.

I'm a conflicted man with a tornado of emotions swirling inside of me. Ultimately, I know what I want. I want the opportunity to show my wife the passion I have for her.

Thanks for your help. Like so many others here, you are a blessing.


Me 47, WW 38
SS18, D15, D10

Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."