Thanks Daisy, I'll try not to but I actually have fun there. It's weird, this is the first job that I have ever had where I am working with people in my own age group. I have always been the youngest person at the 2 jobs that I have had. And because of the money sitch I welcome how many hours I can get!!!
That's awesome Sep. I can't remember the last time I had a job that I actually had fun at. . .I should put that on my resume "must be a fun job!" Hehe. Don't know how many interviews I would get with that though.
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
Darn Secret...I wished I could get more hours...I was only scheduled from 12 to 5 today and they asked it if I would mind staying until 9...Wooo Hooo 4 xtra hours!!!
Then on the way home I said there will be a parking space in front of my building and voila!!!! Parking in front of my building!! ~ It has been very hard to get parking by my place lately but the past 2 night in a row I got got really good places!!
What I have is a piece of paper in my wallet written in the present tense about what my life is like. I did this in the past and I swear it's how I got my amazing job. Now of course I am more focused on the amazing marriage.
I hope you have some free time today?
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
Yes, today was my day off so I went to the mall with the BFF so I could get an outfit for a job interview that I have on Wed.
So I broke today as I had an overwhelming feeling that H wanted to reach out but was nervous, so I sent "Hi stranger, just wanted to say hi and let you know you have a ton of mail here " text. He texted right back "Thank you I have been meaning to text you" and that was it. nothing else since. I mean I guess it is good that he said he was meaning to which would mean that he was thinking about me.
I'm still keeping positive. I have been having alot of dreams about us lately...real life ones, like when I wake up I still feel his arms around me. All positive, like that I notice he is wearing his wedding ring or he is sleeping next to me when I wake up. The other night I dreamt about us having a R talk he said he noticed my changes.
That's good news he texted back straight away, very positive. I've been using the secret too. I asked that my h would initiate something towards me and sure enough when I logged on to FB he had invited me to join a group. Ok, it was just to ask for mobile numbers but pretty weird huh?! Considering the lack of contact forever.
Dreams are good. I think that people don't achieve big goals without them. Look back at whatever you've achieved in your life and I am sure it took a long time... And looking back it seemed to go quite quickly.
I hope that we will all feel like that soon enought- that our efforts to maintain our own sanity during this time has paid off and we are soon rebuilding our marriages.
The only downside about dreaming about your h being there- it just makes you wish he was there sooo much. I know that if I have the chance again I will never take his presence for granted!
Hope your H starts reaching out more again. Maybe he just needed that nudge...
Me-36 H-30 T-7yr, M-3yr DivorceBusting Saved my marriage! sep 6-08 to 12-08. Together again, things are good!
JCJ - That's great!!! Yes, any reach out is good right now!! LoL. I do believe that it is good that he texted right back. I just want to get back to the point that we were just a few weeks ago when it was only every few days that I heard from him.
OW - Oh I know I hate when I realize that it was only a dream!! I am hoping that he only needed that nudge. We shall see what happens in the next few days.
nothing else since. I mean I guess it is good that he said he was meaning to which would mean that he was thinking about me.