My starting again inspired by Sage

[nightshade]

Hello Andrea, I didn't ahve a chance to read all the posts yet , but your last one caught my attention.
You I had a similar situation myself. We had a chance of staying at the same hotel he and ow stayed for a weekend. I wasn't sure if it was going to be a good idea, and neither did he. However I decided that maybe it could bring something positive and we went. The first hours were quite awkward, with me thinking about what had happened and feeling a bit depressed, and him not really knowing what to do or say. However after a bit we decided on doing something. We planned on having a good time, thoughts about the affair or no thoughts about the affair. We went to the pool and had fun together, we had dinner at the restaurant and had a wonderful talk. WE went up to our room and we made some more new memories . You know what, I guess it depends on each person, but I can put aside the unpleasant thing easily, and for me it worked. Actually it was very positive. Because before that everything I passed that chain of hotels I would become tense and somewhat depressed. After it was much different. The new memories we created there really made a difference and I was able to think about those instead of imagining what might have gone there when they had been there together.
AS I said each person reacts differently, but for me , it made things better to go.
Hugs
nightshade