Hi water, i will visit your post soon...!!... Well, everything is OK between h and me, although he is still so stress bc econmic situation and sometimes i accept i dont help him bc some comments, so i need to work on that and try to be patience and accept the difficult situation we have now... relax and hope the situation changes soon...!!... Maybe bc that we hadnt beem intimate, sex, the last days but we had enjoyed a beautifulll day at the beach with kids, talking a lot and relaxing...!!... Something had happend... when we were separate for second time, months ago, i had found out he had been with OW in a hotel in another city of my country... so, now we have an invitation to that city for a bautipsm, and he said w will go to that hotel... i dont feel welll about tht, but i didnt mention my feelings to him... bc the key is not to get again the past... lets see how i can handle that and if i can accept going to that hotel... andrea