Its a dangerous game playing the I got a text/call on my cell phone....I wonder if its a girlfriend game. You don't want her to think well he has moved on...I was thinking of trying again but since it appears he has a GF, then I will stay with OM. I wouldn't keep doing it, you got her reaction and made your point. She will chew on that or spit it out.
You guys seem to be dancing the dance but it may be time to put that finger up and find out where you and/or the OM stand with your wife. If its not good then have a plan on how to react or change your relationship with her.
She has to realize this family time cannot continue without the OM gone. Is she having the best of both worlds? Or is the OM really on the sidelines.
If she still wants out, then a sudden change in family time and the reaction of the kids should have a interesting effect on her.
