I took alot from many sitch also. I don't know the right approach is. I just read "love must be tough" and based my letter to her on that. I did make an ultimatum without it sounding like it yesterday.
She did say things started to change last monday when she did not even want to go upstairs to court without me being there. It just escalated from there. Then last night she had to get in touch with me and was surprised that the cellphone was on and I replied back to her.
H4H,
Yeah there was way more communication this time. It was more open and honest then before. I think that the EA with the OM was going on a little before the speech. OM was an old boyfriend of the W and she is close with his sister. My W started talking to OM about our M problems and went from there. The first real thing that stood out was in May.
Funny thing about life this song came on when I was getting close to the house. It was how I felt and still do a little even after talking with the W.
