The thing is, it can't be the life you had, it has to be a new one. The old life is gone. Keep the lines of communication open as you draw out the blueprints for your new life.
She mentioned that she wanted to get through this and renew our marriage vales (sp?) and start a new R and M. Which I did agree with. Neither one of us want our R to end up where it was.
H4H,
Yeah she came back again in late August. I should have seen through it since it was not genuine. This time was way different though and I really can't explain it. Did not see it then, but I do now. We have been separated since May. I got the ILBNILWY in June. No prob with the questions. I am no expert by any means. I do understand the learning part and trying to compare time frames ect. Not sure if this will even work.
I know I still have a long, long way to go. The only thing to do is see what happens. The hope has been reignited, but I keep it in check. The goal is high, the expectations are low. The honest answer is I still may be single soon, only time will tell.
Last edited by yenko69; 10/05/0803:51 AM.
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