Thanks, y'all. Although I don't know how breaking boards is attractive??? Oh, something funny I think is I was talking to my instructor's wife today, and I was kind of asking why most of the moms don't do TKD, and she said when her H and D and S all started attending TKD they actually did a newspaper article about that (we live in a small town alright!) and when asked why the mom didn't do TKD also, her S told the newspaper writer that she was too fat to do TKD, she attends Weight Watchers instead!!! Isn't that horrible but kind of funny? She said the newspaper guy was nice enough not to print that, thank goodness!!! And btw, she's pretty thin now I guess the WW worked!!!
Kat, I know I'll drive myself crazy thinking like that (I think I already have???) but can't help the way my brain works maybe? And I feel a certain amount of peace that I know I'm being a good parent and making good choices, that kind of peace that I can't imagine my H has. And I realize it's his life to make choices, but feel a little sad my kids don't have a dad that is there more for them. But I know they'll be ok so I'm just a little sad. I know some others here have the same thing with their WAS as well. I have to admit that I was thinking at some point maybe I'll remarry and if so it's going to be someone who will be a good dad and be a better role model for them though!!! Or I'm staying single... Karen
