T2L, I admire you. This sounds good. I am wondering what is going through H's mind. Where is OW during this? Hopefully stewing that he is with family. I would also let H come to practices. Use EVERY opportunity

I am going to get committed to DBing. You are so right we both know he is lying and I will not bring it up. Promise!

Waiting for the book to arrive -- can't wait to read it.

Also this was interesting - 8:30 my D's phone rings and it is H. I hear her say yes Mom is still sick, then she says "No I am watching a movie with Mom". Then she says well I don't know but do you want to come to church tomorrow and he says yes. She hangs up and says H asked me over to watch TV and I told him we were watching a movie, then he asked me to go to the movies with him tomorrow but I am not sure if I want to go with him. H is coming to church. Where did we get these terrific kids. I know H is missing his D tonight and for tonight that is what I am grateful for.

Finally, I sent an e-mail to a good friend of ours that now works in China, I explained that Paul left and was cheating. I made mention that it is very unethical what he is doing - hoping he will read between the lines. H really respects this friend so am waiting to see his response. I am not telling H that I told him. Like the idea of an ambush. See you are inspiring me.


Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09