I now almost want to say ILYBNILWY, this is new territory for me.

Coach - I totally understand. You know my sitch. Many times sad to say - I wonder if I even want my H back anymore. But deep down inside - I do. Your wife put up walls & so did you. A natural defense. Just take it slow .... as the control switches back & forth from her to you & so on. What stage do you think you are at? (Friends, best friends .....)? Keep with the babysteps \:\)


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)