Well I've been at the newcomers forum for awhile, you can check that out if you like, or I'll give you the super quick rundown. heres my current situation, I've been seperated for 5 months, haven't had any contact since july 2nd, she wanted to drop off a present for my son. i know w had om when she left, pretty sure hes still around. She cut me off from contact with my 3 stepkids soon after moving out so she has had no reason to keep in contact. I've wanted to call her or something but I know she will just ignore it. The problem I'm having is I filed for a divorce to protect myself and my two biological kids from her weird financial situtation, she stole 2,000 dollars from me back in august among other things. The thing is I really don't want to divorce her but with no contact before I know it I will be divorced and it'll be too late. I feel like if the om werent around she would stop for a sec and ponder what is going on. She met this man at work and I'm pretty sure over time it won't work out, I guess what I'm asking is how can I get back in contact with her to let her know that things haven't gone too far for me yet? The thing is I don't want to sound desperate and bring all this up I just want to talk to her and possibly begin some kind of communication. any ideas or suggestions would be appreciated!
