Thanks ellie: Yes, i think you are right about writing him a R letter or mail... and maybe he can receive it like a blame from me, after all the work and changes he is ready doing and showing me... thanks for that advice... sometimes i need to controlmyself and try not to be pessimistc about future... not necesarily the history need to be repeat... And about the possibility my h suffering a depression, yes, maybe there is something about that... but how d you think i can aproach him to talk about retaking therapy sessions... h went to one C he didnt like it... he told me he will find another in his clinic, but he is not going yet... i think this doctor can be the one who can analyze the possibility of a depression... and this is possible not only bc the age (41) but bc the situation, difficult situation here in my country... thanks, and stay around andrea