All of this is something else isn't it. We tried to help them before it got this far, but they just would not hear us. Now they are ashamed, like you stated Breton. Some are way too ashamed to ever come back. It would take alot of swallowed pride.
Grace you are right about the example they are setting for their children, horrendous. Will they ever see it? Will other woman?
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11