As far as dialoguing on "How do I feel about spending time together", I am starting to get frustrated about dialogue. We only have two post-sessions left. I feel like the "Doing" part of the process should be kicking in.
What is the point of me saying that when I spend time with H I feel free, comforted, etc. etc.. And then H saying spending time together makes him feel conflicted like he has to choose between two important things (he has made comments like this before).
I can say all day long that I love spending time together. He can say all day long that when he is spending time with me part of him is torn that he can't spend that time with his kids or his cows. Where does that leave us????
Coach, I need to run about 5-6 miles right now. That is the usual way I get my frustrations out......
