For the Guy with Kids and a WW XV

[hopeful4her]

I guess it would be to try to help break up the affair.

Sounds like she is trying to keep her marriage, too. I was under the impression from the wife that they were separated. His wife sent the Tagged message from his profile. She knows his stuff secretly or he confessed everything and showed her everything. Just not sure. I also noticed that a week before those messages, she got another email from his work. It was just a blank reply to an email they kept replying to each other last February, just before Valentines day. The day I really did it up.

There no words in the reply, just the stuff they were replying to each other back then. At one point,she put "I LOVE YOU, I LOVE YOU, I LOVE YOU, I LOVE YOU AND I'M IN LOVE WITH YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I thought it was strange that she got the email sent back to her.

Now I'm thinking that OM's wife has access to his work email and shot it to her to mess with her.

You would think she would have said something in it, though.

I don't know. Maybe its time to turn up the heat a bit. More of what I've been trying to do.

I think I was a bit confusing in my last post. I meant that I was still thinking of sending my wife an email about my feelings. That or do it in person. Thats what I'm debating.

Last night, I never made it to the apartment. D11 hurt my feelings. I had emailed the wife at about 2pm asking if it was ok to visit. I told her I missed them. She sent back that that would be fine. S14 was going to the movies with his dad, so they might be alone. When I called D11, she was at a friends apartment. I asked why. She said that S14 called her and that he wanted her and D6 to go to HIS friends apartment to ask for ANOTHER friends phone number. He told D11 not to tell me or thier mom. She told me not to say anything to him because he might not trust her anymore. I told her that he IS in trouble and should not be making her do things like that and warning her not to tell us. I told them to both get back to the apartment.

I tell her, "Now, I'm going to come by after work to visit ya'll. Maybe I can take the two of you to get a video to watch or something."
"But were supposed to do something with momma tonight."
"Thats fine. I was just wanting to see ya'll. I miss both of you."
"But were going to see you on Sunday anyway, right?"
"You don't want to see me?"
"Yes. But were going on Sunday. We have to spend time with mom too. I think I'm just having a bad day. Too many questions."
"WHAT questions? I just told you I was going to visit. Not take you for the rest of the night. Thats fine. I'll just see you on Sunday. Bye."
"Bye."

I couldn't believe it. She made me so upset, I teared up. I had made arrangements to pick up the girls on Saturday, since the wife is working. A coworkers B'day. Now, not sure. I went to video store to pick up a video to watch. Just as I get out, B calls me. Her and K are meeting for a drink and I have to go meet them. I agree. I picked up "88 Minutes" and joined them for a several drinks and a bite to eat. We had some good laughs and then we headed home.

Alone.

I watched some tv and fell asleep. Never got a call from the girls last night. This morning, I finally call the girls and talk to S14. I didn't mention him getting in trouble yet. I did mention about maybe picking up the girls later, and asked if his mom said anything. He said no. They were all outside skating in an outside plaza at the complex. I told him I'll call after I cut the lawn. He said he was wanting to go to the mall.

I cut the lawn, did some laundry and ate some lunch. Making up the bed, the wife calls me.

"Hey."
"Hey"
"Miguel said that you were going to pick up the girls?"
"Yeah, but the b'day party got cancelled so I might just pick them up to see them or something.
"Well, I talked to Miguel and he said that he was wanting to go to the mall and I told him he had to wait till I got off. He mentioned you were picking up the girls. It was the first I had heard of it."
"I told you on Tuesday when we were having dinner. You told me you were working the next two Saturdays and I asked if I could take them to a party since you were working."
"I don't remember."
"I swear I asked you."
"I don't know what's going on with me."

We talk a little more and then I tell her about the incident yesterday with S14. She said that she talked to him yesterday, because he called her wanting the phone number to the apartment to talk to the girls. He told her what he was going to do. She told him NOT to do that to the girls when they are alone.

I told, "Well, he did it anyway and told them not to tell us."
"Oh, I'll take care of that."
"Okay."
"Look, I have to take a member. Let me call you later, okay?"
"okay."

I don't think that S14 is going to the mall after all. I'll go visit the girls and then make myself available to have dinner with them or maybe go skating or something and invite the wife along. Probably dinner and maybe a movie. Play it by ear.

Hey dub, you can send me a text at around 7pm.