OW will probably insist he leave before he's too much older anyway
Interestingly they have already told S16 that they won't have any children of thier own until he is 18 and has gone to uni. Where do they think he is going to go out of term time if they are still living in a one bedroom flat?
S16 seems to cope with OW moods by going out when they are in. He can't feel very comfortable there but for some reason he feels better there than he did here.
To be fair he has tried to make amends tonight but only if I compromise all the time. I don't mind being flexible some of the time but it would't be real if I did it all the time. He is learning this from his dad as is evident from today's letter. H thinks if he keeps pushing for more and more I will cave in. Well not this time. I might end up with less if I go through the courts but at least I will have had the chance to fight for what is rightfully mine instead of just giving it away to OW.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
