I am so tempted to call the woman. I know it would start a hell storm unless I can convince her to not tell her H about the contact. Let her know how I feel about my wife, too.
What's your purpose in that? Will it help you in anyway achieve a goal? It sounds like she's already as aware as you about the sitch. I think your W would probably get upset, although of course who cares right? I've never been tempted to call OW's XH even when they were married. I just want to take the high road, try to stay out of the drama, etc., but I know my sitch is different than yours. Karen
