Of course God isn't causing any of this. I don't believe that anyone has suggested that he is. That being said; God also has allowed for free will. Because of that He isn't going to reach down and manipulate anyone as if puppets on strings. J is making his choices. They are bad choices, but they are choices he has to own.
God's plan for this is for you to lead a righteous life and to do no harm. His ultimate plan is for no one to be lost. He isn't going to puppet string that either.
Kissak, Find your center. This week your focus has been on your absent husband and it has caused a great amount of upset and turmoil within. A new week is here and it is time to redirect back to what you *can* control rather than what you cannot.
*hugs* ~ swl
Look not mournfully into the past. It comes not back again. Wisely improve the present. It is thine. Go forth to meet the shadowy future, without fear. {Henry Wadsworth Longfellow}
