I asked for God to send a christian into my H's life to maybe lead him down the right road.
NOT A 29, blonde who is a missionary!
Im so sick to my stomach now.
He showed me a pic of her. Of course I asked.
She is gorgeous.
ugh.
She will be back in the country in 2 weeks. They are going to go out. She will be living an hour and a half away.
Im hoping the pic she sent him is fake.
I was so hurt, not only that she was young and beautiful, but a missionary. Well, he said she wont be when she gets back. BUT STILL.
I wish I knew what God's plan was for this.
You know Kissak when I read this it made me cringe...and after reading the rest of this saga I agree that she/he probably is not at all who your H thinks she/he is...and highly unlikely that this person is a missionary at all...not to mention religious/Christian...Which to me isn't a title...it is a way of life...you don't just remove it after Church...or leave it at the office when you get off of work...it IS WHO YOU ARE...
Which brings me to my question...why would you think God would have anything to do with what your H is doing?...He hates adultery, he hates lying, he hates cheating...this perfectly describes God's enemy, Satan the Devil...who IS in control of this world...I believe we all learn from the trials we face in life but I don't believe and I don't see the Bible supporting the idea that God brings these trials upon us to teach us a lesson...What your H is doing is of his own free will which God has given us all...your H is misuing it just as many have and continue to to misues their "rights"...
since you seem to be a sincere person and a bible reader I would like to share a few scriptures with you...
For those who don't believe or might be offended, I appologize...and Kissak if you aren't interested I completely respect that so I will will simply post the scriptures and you can look them up and read them...or not..but they certainly helped me put things in perspective...about why my H did what he did...and who REALLY is to blame for the bad things that happen...and how we all have a choice...
Again, for any who do not believe in the bible...this is not meant to offend...I just wanted to share this with Kissak and any others who are interested and going through what she is...I have been there...I have since saved my marriage...my H has returned to his faith and we are once again a united Christian family...for that I do give God credit and feel blessed.
Deuteronomy 32:4 James 1:13 James 1:14, 15 1 John 2:15-17 1 John 5:19 1 John 3:8
