lwb, I cant even imagine how much strength it took to ride over with your H to the attorny's office. I deff could not do that. Wow. And the line about how it all sucks....well it should! He is the one who wanted this so it should REALLY suck for him. I just dont get why they are willing to put the entire family through h3ll just so they can chase the fantasy of happiness elsewhere. EVERY relationship has problems, EVERY relationship has ups and downs. They will just be trading in one set of crap for another when they move on. In time, they will see that and bail from that R as well. We are the lucky ones. We are the ones that have grown and changed and would climb the highest Mt. to make a R work. We know what to do in our next R and it will be better because of it. They will just continue their broken cycle.
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008