Hi Txmom, sorry I have notposted. I am sick with the flu. H moves out Wednedsay, I get sick thursday night. H is away (with Ow), think they went to San Antonio. H told D he was going away by himself, funny OW takes 1/2 vacation day on Friday. How can you lie and get away with it when we both work there. So you have seen some of the remorse from h. That is good but they will go back and forth on this. Don't be surprised if he steps back now because he does not want to be unfaithful to the OW (as sick as that is). But it looks like he was out of the fog for a bit. Feel encouraged but don't make it too easy for him about that open door. Do what you are doing, keep it friendly, have dignity and keep DB. I will write more when I feel better. Take care.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09