For the Guy with Kids and a WW XV

[hopeful4her]

I just did some snooping on the wifes yahoo. She has been a member of Tagged for a few months before she moved out. I noticed that she had a couple comments from OM on the site. I checked it.



"hey clarrisa i know that u are screwing around with my husband tom. got your number lady"


And then,


"clarrisa I know everything u have been trying with my husband i appriciate it if u leave him be.......... I know it all he confessed to me already. I love my husband but you r supose tobe married and with children. what kind of woman r u. if u wish to talk to me my # is XXXXXXXX.......I know where u both havebeen going to as well. oh and i forgot to let you know about your birthday........................billie "


These were back on the 21st of September. Something is up.

I have now have his wifes cell number. I have done a lot of research on him. I knew her name. I know their address. I know the home phone number. I called it once and she answered and then gave him the phone. I just hung up to mess with him.

The wife has accused me of speaking to his wife. It was on the Sunday we sat in front of the sweet bread store. She had spent the night at her mothers house.

I told her that I had NEVER spoken to her except for the time that I just told ya'll about. I told her that if OM was telling her this or if SHE was saying this, they are both liars.

She had told me that they were separated and that she was at the house at the instance because she had an operation on her foot and needed a place to stay.

I thought to myself, "Either that is what you are being told or the story you are giving me. They are both F'ing lame."

She was telling me sometime before that they were getting divorced blah blah.

I decided to snoop because I was considering sending her an email letting her know how I felt and let her know about my realization about not showing her my passion. She told me that she hardly checks her yahoo anymore, but it looks like she cleaned it up recently. She just gets emails in. It looks like she has not sent any except for a recent house listing. She responded that it was a beautiful and someday she will be able to afford it for herself and the kids. Looks like it was earlier this week.

She has never figured out that I have her yahoo set to save her sent messages. And she doesn't know that she has to delete them from the sent file.

I am so tempted to call the woman. I know it would start a hell storm unless I can convince her to not tell her H about the contact. Let her know how I feel about my wife, too.

Don't know. Interesting comment about her B'day, too.

I think I will either still send the email or give her a letter or do it in person.

Still debating if I should at all or not.

Gonna go do some lawn work. Check in later.