NDS, I agree with Bill, look for the actions. We will give you the words. Maybe the way she is coping is by using the "things haven't changed" comment. Could be a wall she is hiding behind, maybe it helps her feel in control, maybe it turns her on. I would get some female input on your sitch. I understand how it would confuzzle you. Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
