Her primary doc knows she is not taking them as he is my PCP as well. Her therapist does not know b ut I told my therapist who is in the same practice and the word should get to her doc, at least I hope it does. I also mentioned her suicide talk to him so I believe there is enough there to warrant some communications between the two of them.
I've been seeing the same counselor for 8 years and have been pleading with my wife to come in and shed light on what she wanted me to attend to in my sessions. She came with me once and just listened. After we left, she said she "would not return as talking about stuff doesn't help AND I DO NOT WANT TO BRING UP MY PAST". Big clue there!@!!! Yeah, she has a lot in her past buried.