I think Wednesday is a good day to do it...astrologcically! I think if you do do it...you can only do it in a way as thought you are not wanting anything from him, but that you are telling him and thanking him for what you have learnt about yourself in this process. That you're sorry for your behaviour and X, but that it has taught you alot and you are still learning and growing as a result and you thank him for that. Thats my opinion.

No 2x4's...as a result of your post, I started thinking and I have just been on the phone to my BFF for hours again and ding ding ding, had MASSIVE realisations and just pieced the whole of the last year together. I cant believe what I have realised. And I am not sure there is anywhere left to run for me, but honesty either. And I would be 2x4'd for that too, but maybe there comes a time hey.

Ali xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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