Andrea
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For example, i was analyzing a lot why my h doesnt shows a big apetite for sex right now... (3 times in a month after 3 month of separation)... Analyzing the cause of this, makes me feel insecure, and makes me express him my doubts about his lost of sexual apetite... And this, definitely, shoes him i always unsatisfied with all the effort he is doing to make our M work....



Could your H be suffering from depression? I know that has definitely affected my H's sex drive - in fact, he told me while he was gone last week, he didn't have a single erection all week. Even he knows this is a sign of his depression.

Or maybe he's still struggling with guilt feelings. Either way, don't take it personally - I don't think it's about you!

Ellie