WOW ITH! Thats amazing, sounds like my iife. Except its easier for me, as I am not in a different country to my ex and also, I have Jody on speed dial. Sounds like the gf needs to do some phone coaching and see how she can approach him, if she wants him back. I was reading about Ryan and Scarlett Johnsonn.. he WAS on Alanis Morissette, but then M Scarlett. Is interesting though, popular astrologers reckon it wont last....

Your post has really really made me realise something about my ex, with clarity. That guy sounds just like him.. like my BFF said, when he decided to dramatically stop calling and go for the A instead, basically he did the easier option. Becuase it was waaaaay harder to undo 12-18 months and fix it with me. But is also sounds to be about confidence.. confidence in their own feelings and that decision to leave there because, well it cant be right then, if I did X, or dont want to do Y. I had this to some extent after my EA/mini PA...but being a woman it was esier, woman endure, men are more single minded. Sounds like the ex gf, and me, need to build their confidence back up.. we can have a life together, but it doesnt have to look and feel like the same as the old life you WA from.

I think its interesting that you and your H are going to get so see each other during this active Mercury retrograde period and I therefore think there will (or should!?) be some R talk at some point, or at least an opening of a line of communication if not an actual talk about the R, if you see what I mean. Be open to it! What has Jodys advice been?

Ali xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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