Thanks, OTE. I had forgotten I posted anything here! I appreciate your perspective so much!!
I gotta lose weight. At work, I never have time to eat lunch--so that should be helping!! Aside from that, need more exercise. I hate exercise! It's soooo much harder when you're heavy. Hopefully soon I'll be able to afford the Y and can take a Pilates class, which I've always wanted to do.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012