From everything I have learned on this site, it is ok to respond, with respect and interest if they contact you first. Just keep everything short and sweet and do not try to prolong the conversation out of neediness.
Me 47, W 32,D 6, Met 11 yrs. ago, M 7 Bomb 4/08/08, Sep. 8/10/08, Div. 8/10/09
