How to move foreward...

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(((Sandy)))

This is not easy for you. I DO UNDERSTAND. Believe me, many of us here do.

Sandy, you do need to try and not let what H does or does not do influence how you feel. I know this is HARD AS HELL. Believe me I know. I feel every tear you cry as if it were running down my own cheek. I have been there and at times still am. But at other times, like today, I can be ME. I feel what I want to feel - what W does or says DOES NOT IMPACT HOW I FEEL. Heck, she is staying at a friends house tonight and it does no bother me in the least. Believe me, I still love my W with all my heart, but right now, I do not at all like the behavior I am seeing as it is destroying our family. Maybe try and take that approach to help yourself. Just a thought.

You don't get there easily though. And at times you will (as I have) slip back. But you need t do this for you and your K's. All you can control is you.

(((Sandy))) you CAN DO THIS. YOU CAN MAKE IT THROUGH and will be a much stronger woman for it. Try to keep the faith.