Garry, I don't mean to sound flippant about this. But I've been through something very similar. It's a very hard road. But don't give up hope yet. Your W is lost. It may sound crazy, but be her hero. Go tomorrow night and see the movie Fireproof. Realize that it doesn't have to be over, pray and act like it isn't. A lawyer will tell you you need to protect yourself. But in reality, what does it matter. Not all peace is the same. This is your W, the woman that you love. Don't give up. I and others are here for you.
