He is really craving attention--kind of like the thrill of the chase that gives a person a temp. high.

I think these ow come on by giving them a pity story. That is how it started for my H and then he shared with her about his upbringing, etc etc.

When she learned he was married she vowed to stick it out however long it takes (her words to him three years ago and when I found out) and that she was very jealous of me because I am the wife.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19