Snakes are my greatest fear. Something I have not overcome. As one of my post bomb recovery tactics I took a trip to the Amazon and stayed in the jungle for 9 days. To step outside of my box and face my fears. Never saw a snake! Not disappointed.

It sometimes bothers me more at the cottage. WE split here. He had maggot here before I knew about her. She left her "calling card" - she dropped a theatre receipt for 2 at the movies, night of our daughter's 13 birthday. She left 2 wine glasses in the dish rack. And she relined my stove burners. Made my daughter's bed up perfect. Left the dried flowers on the coffee table. H knew you couldn't do that - the kitty would eat them.

Stuff a wife would be able to pick out. Kind of like Sleeping with the Enemy - kind of creepy.

Oh well, I am brave to be here alone and face those fears too. I have got passed it.

Barb