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Please don't accept this any more. You did what you did, and yes it might cost you your marriage....but it should not also cost you the price of the cruelty he wants to dish out to you.


I agree with this. You cannot have a good M if he is still holding on to the A. Don't sacrifice yourself for your H. As hard as it is, since my W is in an A. I would not want her back if she was a doormat to the abuse your H is putting you through. Take your stand for your own dignity and let the chips fall as they may. Without your own self-respect it would be hard to be good to anyone else.
Take care of yourself.

Last edited by yenko69; 10/04/08 02:10 AM.

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