"Before I left H & I talked a bit about the C. and I left it in his court whether or not he was comfortable going back to him or not. He decided 'not'. He canceled his appointment he had for C yesterday."
And this really surprises you in some way? I knew he wasn't going the day you posted the C asked for separate sessions. I saw him weaseling out! DAM!
"I think that has him off balance, which makes me nervous, because when he is off balance he is more likely to become overwhelemed with emotions, which means unpredictable behaviour. Unpredictable behaviour from him is scary for me."
But.. at the same time this is likely where you will see the most changes. If you can keep him "off balance". Unpredictable can be good.. you just have to "steer" it.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
