It is a two way street. Your failings in the M has nothing to do with his decisions. But, yeah we do sometimes pay for the cost of that decision. Take control of yourself and your life. Everyday is a moment you should not squander.

The future's uncertain
and the end is always near

The Doors


A warrior does not give up on what he loves, he finds the love in what he does

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