This is totally how I feel too! I'm sure everyone doesn't need to hear about what I've accomplished at work every day or how D3 is getting to be such a saucy girl.. or what books I'm reading.
I'm just kind of living my life.. and I'm comfortable.. even happy a lot of the time (even though I'm in limboland).
I get where you're coming from K.. I wouldn't want to be the bad guy to the kids either (when you know they don't understand the dynamics and don't care about them.. they just want Mommy and Daddy together again).