It IS what it is, but that doesn't necessarily mean "it" will be this way forever-- only time will tell. He's not cooked yet. You have to leave him be. You can't "make" him do anything.
I know how hard it is-- I too have difficulty letting go (which is NOT the same as giving up). But let me tell ya, every time I push my H, it invariably bites me in the arse. Never fails.
You can't keep doing the same thing over and over, and honestly expect a different result.
You really do have to move on without him, because the reality is he may not come back, although you can still leave the door open.
You are still way too focused on him. You need to make it all about you and your girls now and GAL like your life depends on it, because it does.
