Two wrongs don't make a right. No one deserves to feel like a "cum receptacle" or should pretend to be one. That's ludicrous. You respond by saying, "I know you are angry. I'm so sorry." But, NEVER let anyone make you feel less than human. Your husband is angry and is saying things to express them, however mean they are. Nine months is a long time to still be saying these hurtful things. It looks like marriage counseling with a pro-marriage counselor is in order.
