My point was that I vassilate between wanting to be tender, loving and emotionally connected to my W and give her what she feels she was lacking from me. Then the next minute I feel that she objectified the M and made it about sex and therefore I want to have a raw, visceral, whorish interlude with her with no emotional connection.
And then I swing back the other way. It really is a rollercoaster.
Let him get it out of his system. He is looking for sex with you. Be grateful he is not driving through the red-light districts.
