Trying2live- the new post 1

[hope3343]

hi ladies, sitting home sick, achy and feverish. I kept feeling a little "off" for a few days and attributed to the 'move'
Even though H is off from work today he gets business calls so I texted him telling him I was sick in case anyone questioned it. He called me to see how I felt and he said I sounded terrible. I told him thanks for calling and take care. No mention of him going away.
T2L you have a great game plan. You are the spin master. Your H won't know what hit him. Do you have any idea of how the relationship with OW is going these days? I need to get into the groove before I put an official Plan A in place. Need to get over these emotional breakdowns. But I plan to work on the love bank ideas. H is coming over Sunday to work on the lawn (I find this so odd because the last few months he did nothing at all), I will make a fuss about the work he does. T2L you are lucky that he accepted all of those invites with you. I was pretty sad because we both got invited to a Halloween party and he said yesterday he does not want to go. OW will be there also so it might be just as well.
Twinhope, it sounds like the control is kicking in for H. He is still trying to control the marriage even if he is not there. Since he moved in May it is time to start getting a plan A in place. I have to get a plan together also. With the holidays and us going to CT (not H), I might wait till we come back and launch my attack. Or maybe set up Plan A for a month prior to me leaving and then giving H letter for Plan B. Just do not know who to use as mediator. You have us all thinking.
TxMom, Isn't it sad seeing the real H that has been wrapped up in his MLC addiction. We do remember why we still love them. will go to your stich also. take care everyone. I feel bad we have not heard from Jgrind. I hope she is ok