No it has not been mentioned by her. I thought she might tell me when it is but she has not and not really sure how to ask it without her getting on the defensive. I am just playing it by ear. If she is commited to this M she will go and I would think tell me. But I cannot force her to go, she knows that she is welcome to come with me. I just hope it was not lip service, I hate lip service, well most lip service. Actions thats what I want. Told the C that last night.