Mike, i have to agree with Gypsy on this, and it may be, NO, it IS because of what i am going through. My W, in our R, wanted out, and chose to have OM to help her do it. Maybe it all started out as emails and glances, but unfortunately for me it ended up her leaving me for him.
and that hurts like a mother. and no matter how DAM her boyfriend is, i'm sure it'll hurt for him too.
I believe your intentions are honest, that i have no doubt. But she has to leave him on her own, and by 'on her own' that has to mean she doesnt think she has Mike waiting for her. know what i'm saying? even if its just emails and glances, thats still Mike waiting for her.
her having a fall-back plan means she may not put in the work her current R deserves.
hard to word this all right, i have the feeling in my gut, but it may not come out my fingers right.
of course, i wish i was in your position. mustang GT, eh? a girl who keeps her car in pristine condition shows respect for something beautiful. and thats a good thing.
"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".
