I'm All That and A Box Of Tampons

[ernest88]

Kathleen..I hear ya..I do have questions though and you knew I would soooooo away we go!!

About cafegirl34? Don't run a tab.

I hear ya here.. I get this.

Where is your mind at?

My mind is on moving forward. That does include dating. It does not mean a full blown R. It means having a good time. Going out.

You say something about all the guys in the area are after her and she chose you? HelllooOOO... boyfriend alert. Where is he in this picture?

Yep, she's hot..I don't know If I said all were after her but all do notice her..of course if a woman walks and can halfway talk then we notice her. The BF is right there with her and she knows straight up and to the point that I will not interject myself in that. She has also told me that she is in this relationship and is faithful to him to the end but says the road is "rocky"..which is all good with me.

Forget longing looks, being the guy in the wings. DBing her, lots of emails.. is she talking to you more than she is to her boyfriend about her situation?

I could not tell you the answer to this. I can tell you she knows I won't fix her, I won't rescue her. This is her stuff to take care of.

If so.. hello inappropriate friendship.

If I'm guilty of an inappropraite R with her then you and I have an inappropriate R for sure..the difference is this..I don'talk to her on emotional issues either mine or hers. All I know is her R with her BF is "rocky". She knows I'm in the middle of a D.

you mean y'all are just sharing notes back and forth, looking forward to seeing something in your email from her?

the notes are nothing more that chit chat..getting to know you type stuff. There is no more n those notes than what there would be if I was standing in thecafe perusing the menu.

You're a guy she's attracted to and vise versa because she approached you!

that's true..I sort of thought that's how things worked..
LOL

Run...

I won't run. and I won' wait. I'm available she's not. She has to get her chitt straight before Mikey gets in the game. It's a boundary I have. I'm not an OM.

Now.. if she deals with her stuff (without you being her coach or confidant) and resolves it and approaches you as a single woman.. then that shows something.

tell it all sister, tell it all

Look at the menu

Oh I do..More than just her are approaching me Kathleen..Helll their coming out of the woodwork...remember.."I'm all that and a box of tampons" LOL