got any more advice on boundaries..something I'm missing??
Know where your limits are and try to be consistent. I'm not saying that there can't be modifications along the way, but you know what you really need and want right now. And it's not fair to tell yourself that something is OK just this once or for a little while (and I'm talking from personal experience and about me....) It's hard in the beginning when things are shiny and new not to get caught up in it.....It took me a year and a half of post D dating to decide I was taking a break for while. (and still not done breaking).
