And now I just got my flight details and I won't get to the house before 11 PM...:(

H IMd me and said "pretty late". Trying not to read into why he's annoyed, and just hoping it's because he was looking forward to seeing me, not wanting some huge R talk.

Already wondering about the sleeping arrangements too! What if I get there and he's in the spare room or something???

OK breathing now. I am going to have the most amazing as-if attitude from now until Monday night. There is no way that he'd want to initiate some R talk on Monday night at 11, I hope. If he does take the spare room, I will be gracious, though also counter the move with some skimpy sleepwear. I am going to be happy, smiling, and fun, no sad puppy dog eyes, no leaping into his arms...

ITH


Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years
Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be
S 07/28/08-11/08/08
Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!